Legal glossary

Meet and confer

Meet and confer: A required good-faith attempt by the parties to resolve a dispute before asking the court to decide it.

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What meet and confer means

In short, meet and confer is a term you will meet in court papers, rules and legal research. The definition above gives its usual meaning in American civil practice. However, the exact meaning can depend on the rule, statute or court decision that uses it. So it helps to read the term in context.

Where meet and confer comes up

For example, the term appears in these procedures:

How to research the term

Start with the primary source. For example, if meet and confer appears in a federal rule, read the rule itself and its official notes. After that, check your court’s local rules and any standing orders from the judge. In addition, search recent decisions from your own state or federal district. They show how courts read meet and confer in practice. Because state rules often differ, our state procedures guide links to each state’s official rules. Above all, make sure the version you read is still in force.

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Related legal terms

  • Protective order: a court order limiting discovery to protect a party or person from annoyance, embarrassment, oppression, or undue burden or expense.
  • Privilege: a legal right to withhold certain information from discovery or testimony, such as attorney-client privilege.
  • Attorney-client privilege: a privilege that generally protects confidential communications between a lawyer and client made to obtain or give legal advice. Its scope is defined by the law that applies.
  • Work product: materials prepared in anticipation of litigation or for trial, which receive protection from discovery under Federal Rule of Civil Procedure 26(b)(3).

Why precise terms matter

Legal words often look like everyday words, but they can carry a precise meaning. Because of that, a small misreading can change how you understand a deadline, a duty or a right. Our glossary keeps each definition short and links it to the procedures where it matters.

Sources

Sources last reviewed: 2026-10-23

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